My joy started the day the sun reached it's highest peak. Oh boy!! The days began shrinking and my longing began. Summer i knew, was upon us, and with it the horrible humidity that plagues my town. The concrete exacerbates the problem and the extra padding i wear doesn't help, BUT, i have air conditioning and am free to stay in or come in out of the heat whenever i want. Still it's horrid.
As the days shortened, and the heat grew intolerable, all i could think of was the fall and winter coming up. Cooler weather and a more comfortable life. I'd have more energy, would be in a better frame of mind, and projects would get done. At least my outlook would be better.
My mother, many years ago, said to me "December 21st is my favorite day". What??? Mom loved the summer. She hated winter, and on December 21st the coldest time of the season was ahead of us. "Mom, i thought you loved summer best". She often said "Christmas should be in July" or "Let's celebrate Christmas in July instead of December." She then explained to me the since the days started getting longer on December 21st, spring and her beloved summer was just around the corner and it gave her something to look forward too. My brilliant mom--why didn't i think of that. So i have since reversed the idea and have made June 21st my favorite day of the year. It helps me get through the horrid summer. I have brisker weather to look forward too.
When fall rolls around and the rains increase, as do the clouds and the time changes, and we have more dark then light, my mood improves. Many times i have written the weather people on TV news to explain that there are some people who thrive in the rain and the dark and the gloom. I don't understand it either but not everyone feels joyous and free when the warm weather descends!!!!!
I'm in hog heaven right now. I had to put on my heavier jacket and my scarf and a hat earlier to go run some errands cuz guess what----life is good and the best days are yet to come. Baby it's cold outside!!